Why This Exists
Healthy masculinity was never taught to us.
Men have spent their entire lives being policed and told what it means to "Be a man."
From kindergarten all the way to the highest levels of government and business, men have been confined and forced into a narrow definition of what "being a man" is actually about.
These messages have left men feeling alone, disconnected, and unsure of how to embrace their manhood in a healthy way.
Men Who Chatt was created to give Chattanooga men an opportunity to redefine their manhood while being witnessed, heard, and supported through life's many ups and downs.
A community of brothers.
Brothers, fathers, husbands, uncles, and sons who help support one another to grow and discover healthier ways to show up responsibly as men in the world.
Safe, confidential circles.
Through proven frameworks of engagement, our circles support men to challenge their limiting beliefs, grow outside of their comfort zones, and discover a new and healthier way to show up.
End male loneliness.
We honor and stand with all men of difference, committed to ending male loneliness and isolation by embodying healthy masculinity and healing the hearts of men.
◆ We are not affiliated with any religious organization or belief system
What We Stand On
The four pillars.
The foundation of every circle, every man, every conversation.
Brotherhood
We honor and stand with all men from any background as a community committed to ending male loneliness and isolation.
Accountability
We commit to hold one another to a higher standard which involves staying true to and honoring the agreements we make with ourselves and others.
Authenticity
Without judgment, we honor and recognize that each man has their own life experiences and encourage them to embrace what makes them different and unique.
Holding Space
We are here to witness and honor exactly where a man is in their life while challenging him to step into his fullest potential.
What Circle Changes
How being part of a community changes men’s lives.
Greater Accountability
When it comes to becoming a man who follows through on his commitments, there is nothing more powerful than having a group of men who care about you enough to keep you accountable and hold you to your word.
A Safe & Supportive Space
Connecting with other men on a similar journey can be incredibly empowering and uplifting. For this to happen, psychological safety is paramount. But don't confuse safety with "comfort."
Opportunities for Growth & Learning
Through our circles, workshops, and weekend training adventures, we offer opportunities for men to learn new skills, gain new insights, and grow as individuals.
Awakening to Your True Power
Through this community, you can connect with your inner strength, discover your true purpose, and awaken to your full potential.
Who We Are
A circle of Chattanooga men, holding space for one another.
What this is
Men Who Chatt is an Open Men’s Group affiliated with the ManKind Project USA — a global nonprofit that has supported men’s personal growth for over forty years. We meet weekly in circle: a confidential space where men are witnessed, heard, and challenged to grow. No gurus, no hierarchy of worth — just men showing up honestly for each other.
We are nota religious organization, a therapy group, or a substitute for professional mental health care. We’re a brotherhood.
How it's led
The circle is led by a team of brothers who each carry different responsibilities — approving new men, planning circles, stewarding finances, and holding the container. Leadership rotates and is shared; no one man owns this.
Each circle night is held by a King — an initiated brother who volunteers to guide that evening. The crown passes from man to man.
Who's welcome
Any man 18 or older who identifies as a man and is willing to live by our ground rules. This group welcomes all who attend regardless of race, ethnicity, ability, socioeconomic status, age, religion, or sexual orientation.
Disruptive or abusive behavior is the one thing that isn’t welcome — it’s the boundary that keeps the rest safe.
What a first night looks like
You’ll be greeted, not put on the spot. We open together, then men take turns speaking and being heard. You will never be forced to share — “I’m just here to listen tonight” is always a complete answer. Most men find the hardest part is walking in the door; after that, it’s just men being real.
Common questions
Is what I say really kept confidential?
Yes. Confidentiality is our first ground rule — what’s said in circle stays in circle. The one exception, which every man affirms when he applies, is that facilitators are not bound by confidentiality in the case of suicidal ideation or intent to harm yourself or others.
Do I have to be part of MKP, or do a training?
No. This is an open group — you can attend without having done MKP’s New Warrior Training Adventure. Some men go on to do it; many never do. You’re welcome either way.
What does it cost?
There’s no fee to attend an open circle. Some events (retreats, trainings) may have their own costs, always stated up front.
What if I'm nervous or not sure this is for me?
That’s the most normal feeling there is, and it’s not a reason to stay away. Apply, and a brother will reach out before your first circle to answer anything — what to wear, where to park, whether to come at all.
Listen
From the MKP podcast.
Conversations on men’s work from the ManKind Project — the global community Men Who Chatt is part of.

Ep 256 · Jun 9, 2026 · 51 min

Ep 255 · Jun 2, 2026 · 57 min

Ep 254 · May 25, 2026 · 62 min